Jan Kern

writing and speaking about teen and young adult issues

  • Books

  • Seduced/Saved
  • false intimacy

    In Seduced by Sex, Saved by Love-- A Journey Out of False Intimacy, you'll follow the true story of Suzy, whose search for acceptance and belonging pulled her into the grip of the pressures, lies, and confusion of today's message about sexuality.

    Read more! Check out the excerpt. Order now through Amazon.

  • Scars
  • self-injury

    Read an excerpt

    In Scars That Wound, Scars That Heal--A Journey Out of Self-Injury, you'll walk alongside Jackie, whose arms are marked with reminders of the painful journey she thought she had to take alone.

    Available through Amazon.

  • more books . . .

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self-injury resources

Note: Many of the resources and links below are commonly recommended, but it’s always a good idea to carefully—or prayerfully—consider anything you read, even in deciding if you should read it or not.If you are someone who is engaged in self-harming behavior, the information below can be helpful but will never be a substitute for finding people you can talk to and share your story with—people who will listen and care.For those who are encouraging and supporting someone who is self-injuring, the information will help you understand more about what is happening and how you can help. Still, don’t hesitate to get others involved from your community—pastors who understand self-injury or professional counselors.

BOOKS

General Market:

The Scarred Soul—Understanding and Ending Self-Inflicted Violence
by Tracy Alderman

See My Pain! Creative Strategies and Activities for Helping Young People Who Self-Injure
by Susan Bowman, Kaye Randall

Cutting—Understanding and Overcoming Self-Mutilation
by Steven Levenkron

A Bright Red Scream: Self-Mutilation and the Language of Pain
by Marilee Strong

Healing the Hurt Within—Understand and Relieve the Suffering Behind Self-Destructive Behaviour
by Jan Sutton

With a Christian faith slant:

Scars That Wound, Scars That Heal—A Journey Out of Self-Injury
by Jan Kern

No More Pain! Breaking the Silence of Self-Injury
by Vicki F. Duffy

Self-Injury—When Pain Feels Good
by Edward T. Welch

LINKS

Jan’s Blog - Tips for those in the Christian faith community on helping someone who self-injures

Choose 2 Live Free - Jan’s Site for teens and young adults, talking about “living free”; more resources about self-injury are being developed for the C2LF Amplified page

American Self-Injury Information Clearinghouse - Self-Injury Fact Sheet

Helping Those Who Hurt Themselves - Tips for the support person from psychologist and author, Tracy Alderman

LifeSIGNS - Fact sheets and resources for the person who self-injures and for the support person

Lysamena Project - A Christian-based site with information, resources, and links

Secret Shame - Self-injury information and support (caution for those who are self-injurying and are easily triggered)

SIARI - “Self-Injury and Related Issues,” information, resources, support (also potentially triggering)

ARTICLES AND DOWNLOADS

Indentifying Kids Who Cut Themselves - Article and video on the signs of self-injury
LifeSigns Self-Injury Awareness Booklet - Free downloadable 124-page booklet
LifeSigns Fact Sheets - One-page fact sheets for students, health-care professionals, teachers, and parents
LifeSigns Help Pack and Halt Page - Resources for the person who wants to stop self-harming (Note: help-lines in pack are for the UK)
Teen Self-Injury May Be Common - Includes July 2007 statistics on teen self-injury
One In Six Teens Inflict Self-Harm - A January, 2008 article explaining current research that indicates the frequency of self-injury among teens
Conquering Cutting and Other Forms of Self-Injury - A series of articles for the person who is self-harming and those who want to help
Tough Issues, Tender Hearts - A Brio article on self-injury, including an interview with ZOEgirl and the story behind the song, “Scream.” Also includes some alternatives to self-injury.

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