Jan Kern

writing and speaking about teen and young adult issues

  • Books

  • internet addictions

    In Eyes Online, Eyes On Life--A Journey Out of Online Addictions, you'll read about Colin whose loneliness fed an obsession with the Internet that led to addictions to pornography, gaming, and endless surfing.

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    Eyes Online, Eyes On Life is available to preorder through Amazon

  • false intimacy

    Seduced by Sex, Saved by Love was a 2009 Retailers Choice Award finalist in the youth categoy!

    In Seduced by Sex, Saved by Love-- A Journey Out of False Intimacy, you'll follow the true story of Suzy, whose search for acceptance and belonging pulled her into the grip of the pressures, lies, and confusion of today's message about sexuality.

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    Order Seduced by Sex, Saved by Love through Amazon. or your local bookstore.

  • self-injury

    Scars That Wound, Scars That Heal is a 2008 ECPA Book of the Year Finalist!

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    In Scars That Wound, Scars That Heal--A Journey Out of Self-Injury, you'll walk alongside Jackie, whose arms are marked with reminders of the painful journey she thought she had to take alone.

    Available through Amazon. and your local bookstore.

  • more books

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deepening ministry to preteens

Posted by jankern on January 8, 2009

gift of discovery

Just back from the Children’s Pastor’s Conference (INCM) that took place in Nashville, Tennessee. Patrick Snow (from SuperStart), Sean Sweet, and I did a preconference on preteen ministry, with my focus being, not surprisingly, the at-risk child or preteen. I was also able to give an additional workshop during the conference. I’ll be doing it again at CPC’s February conference in San Diego.

A few thoughts I shared during my workshops:

The stats we see for junior high/high school at-risk behavior are representative of life challenges that are likely already happening during the childhood/preteen years. To make an impact, we should act now, not later.

Our work and ministry to children and youth is most effective when we keep a pulse on the issues of today’s world and teen culture, especially in consideration of the individual and his or her personal questions and struggles.

Reaching the child, preteen, teen, or young adult involves caring about their family. We do that, at least partly, by developing a ministry philosophy that actively and practically nurtures the respect and communication between the members of the family, and nourishes the faith in that home.

In order to offer real purpose and hope to those we teach in our ministries or love in our homes and communities, we must daily go deeper in our relationship with Christ through prayer, reading God’s words, and intentionally living out what he shows us.

More to come, but I invite your thoughts. Let’s keep the dialog going.

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