Jan Kern

writing and speaking about teen and young adult issues

  • Books

  • internet addictions

    In Eyes Online, Eyes On Life--A Journey Out of Online Addictions, you'll read about Colin whose loneliness fed an obsession with the Internet that led to addictions to pornography, gaming, and endless surfing.

    Read an excerpt

    Eyes Online, Eyes On Life is available to preorder through Amazon

  • false intimacy

    Seduced by Sex, Saved by Love was a 2009 Retailers Choice Award finalist in the youth categoy!

    In Seduced by Sex, Saved by Love-- A Journey Out of False Intimacy, you'll follow the true story of Suzy, whose search for acceptance and belonging pulled her into the grip of the pressures, lies, and confusion of today's message about sexuality.

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    Order Seduced by Sex, Saved by Love through Amazon. or your local bookstore.

  • self-injury

    Scars That Wound, Scars That Heal is a 2008 ECPA Book of the Year Finalist!

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    In Scars That Wound, Scars That Heal--A Journey Out of Self-Injury, you'll walk alongside Jackie, whose arms are marked with reminders of the painful journey she thought she had to take alone.

    Available through Amazon. and your local bookstore.

  • more books

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from eyes online to eyes on life

Posted by jankern on December 11, 2008

This past summer, as I waited for a flight, I saw a family sitting on the floor near the window. I guessed that the five children were easily under ten, some closer to age five or six (might have been friends or cousins). All, including the parents, were either on a cell phone or playing a video game. Yes, one of the younger ones was on a cell phone. No conversation with one another at all. I wondered if that was unusual or typical–for this family and families in general.

Since at that time Eyes Online, Eyes On Life was close to its release date, my thoughts turned to teens and young adults who have grown up with computers, video games, cell phones. Even if they don’t own the latest technology, they know how to use it. “Technology” is close to a first language for them, and that’s not going to change.

But I continue to have a nagging question (potentially a hot button issue for some): How can we use technology differently (and maybe less) so that we’re connecting more to life, more with those around us? And why does that matter?

I see the approaching holidays as an opportunity for individuals and families to reduce time with their technology at least 25% (hours will vary!) and get creative with spending time with friends and family, enjoying an old pastime, or learning something new (and non-technological).

Over the next couple weeks I will be posting and twittering on this topic, adding thoughts and ideas and sharing those that others come up with (while at the same time reducing my own technology time by at least 25%).

Join me?

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